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And it’s been ten years

I’m not sure if the time’s been flying or what. I’ve been doing this for a decade now. So, my marriage has been going pretty good. I can thank my abusers for basically kicking me into figuring out what I … Continue reading

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Well, that was awkward

So yesterday, I posted a tweet paraphrasing a conversation I had with my husband regarding breakfast. “That’s not a burrito.” “@scalzi says it is.” “Scalzi says a lot of things, sweetheart.” This morning, I got an email from Twitter saying … Continue reading

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Now entering Year Seven

About the only thing that’s changed is that I’ve picked up a romantic partner. Her name is Chris, and she is, if anything, more transgender than I am, if that makes sense. We’ve actually been dating for a while. Pretty … Continue reading

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Well…

…I guess I’m not as heart-healed as I thought. As I thought about it on the way home tonight from a family gathering, that I’ve lived for five years with my inability to self describe as being a nice person … Continue reading

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A Nice Person

I was emotionally abused in an online relationship for the better part of a year, about five to six years ago, by a man who lured me in, then introduced me to his wife, and also weaponized me against her, … Continue reading

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Something of a transition… in the home

I’ve been in the midst of something of an upheaval in my life, on the side opposite the one that got it over a year ago when I lost my job and had to go find a new one. It … Continue reading

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Three Months Later

Well, that’s definitely a confirmation for me. So far, I’m logging in once a week (or less) into Star Trek Online since I created an account there. My friends haven’t had to come kick me in the ass over it, … Continue reading

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An Experiment

I’ve decided to take the risk, and join up with Star Trek Online, in part as an experiment into why I might’ve been addicted in the first place. I think I know the original causes, and I’m just needing to … Continue reading

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Now a few weeks into Year Five – My Year In Review

Really, have I been doing this for over four years now? It’s really seeming like it’s old hat now, getting all dolled up for an evening on the town, or throwing on a nice light skirt and tank top to … Continue reading

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I ran across this today

The reasons you stay in an abusive relationship. http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2011/07/why-does-she-stay-with-that-jerk.html

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