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First day of 2018

And I actually had my first brush with a form of identifiable to me body dysphoria. I don’t disassociate or black out or anything like that related to my bits, but there was a definite collections of actions undertaken today … Continue reading

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Last day of the year

With 2017 going out having told 2016, “hold my beer and watch this,” I’m hoping 2018 doesn’t want to outdo them both on the “be nasty to people in general” front. It’s been a very, very mixed year, especially being various … Continue reading

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OK, how deep IS the rabbit hole?

So, my dearest spouse has made some notice of how my mood goes throughout the week. Or rather, between periods of me being in Comfort Mode, doing Convenience Mode because of things like work. And that said mood can take … Continue reading

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And it’s been ten years

I’m not sure if the time’s been flying or what. I’ve been doing this for a decade now. So, my marriage has been going pretty good. I can thank my abusers for basically kicking me into figuring out what I … Continue reading

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Fun near the end of nine years

This has been one of my more stressful anniversaries. And an interesting year in general. I’m still out, still doing “the thing” about once a week or so. My husband has made it pretty clear he can tell when I’m … Continue reading

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Anyway

I did kill my last Twitter account a few weeks ago. So far, I haven’t missed it. I sincerely doubt, at this point, even if they start providing the good tools, that they’ll make sufficient changes to the service to … Continue reading

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Fucking done with Twitter

If they don’t start implementing some of the recommendations for curbing the abuse, and banning the abusers, literally before the month is out, I’m going to be done with them. They can go into the “never a site to use” … Continue reading

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Well, that was awkward

So yesterday, I posted a tweet paraphrasing a conversation I had with my husband regarding breakfast. “That’s not a burrito.” “@scalzi says it is.” “Scalzi says a lot of things, sweetheart.” This morning, I got an email from Twitter saying … Continue reading

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Eight Years – and another anniversary

Eight years of being out. A few days away from being married for a year. We just bought a house last month. We’ve just about finished moving in, although some stuff is still in boxes. We have a proper “rec … Continue reading

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Hm

Sorry this anniversary post is just a little bit late, but life does get a little bit in the way sometimes. So, now over seven years since I decided to step outside and just be who I am. A lot … Continue reading

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